Suggestion about what Brendan should do

[robracer]

OK Brendan make it public in your signature & it is in the open for all to have a say.
It seems many wont go public & say what they really think of you, your actions & what you have done to members.
There are also many members on this forum that do not know the whole story about what you have done behind the scenes to provoke members unwillingness to want to socialise with you, but I will not go into detail here about your shortcomings.

Your signature reads:

91 kawasaki zxr250c
Member who get's bullied all the time by some members, or get's sobbed off by rude F....ers, when i try to socialise and chat to others from the club on ksrc , because all i want to do is to be liked again and trusted again.

You say you want to be liked again..... probably won't happen
You say you want to be trusted again.... probably won't happen

You seem to be in constant denial when something bad goes wrong with you, if you hassle out another member, you need to be honest with yourself first & others or you will never gain any respect in the real world

[brendanzxr]

Please delete it rob , i'm not a bad person i've just done stupid thing's that i really hate myself for doing , becaue i didn't think.
People do stupid thing's in this world but they say sorry , then they forgive , and then they should let it blow over, that's what should be happening, not this crap. that keep's continuing.

[timmyrocks]

oh please go on i missed something rob
i missed that signature hehe

[JetPilot]

Robs mean...
Whats with this Brendan.....
91 kawasaki zxr250c
Member who get's bullied all the time by some members, or get's sobbed off by rude F....ers, when i try to socialise and chat to others from the club on ksrc , because all i want to do is to be liked again and trusted again.
You socialised with us on Friday night and came for a ride Sunday.... so are you referring to the Southern chapter of KSRC
Your really going to win people over writing that shit. Grow up.

[brendanzxr]

I only wrote that so ppl can see how i feel about this crap that's going on, but i've deleted it now.

[Six Addict]

that doesnt make it better brendan

[brendanzxr]

I have nuthing more to say.

[Six Addict]

good

[robracer]

For those that did not see the siggy before the predictable edit & deletion, the blue highlited section above was put up by Brendan as his signature for the day
Now brendan if you want to put stuff like that in your siggy thats fine, but as has been pointed out you are doing so at your own risk

[brendanzxr]

I need a holiday, so i can sort myself out and change the way i think and do thing's.

[myk1979]

I only wrote that so ppl can see how i feel about this crap that's going on, but i've deleted it now.

Unfortunately life is not that simple.......say something thats OBVIOUSLY going to kick up a stink with people (not me personally, i'm merely a bystander) and when the shit looks like hitting the fan.......DELETE......

Sounds like you need to think about what your going to type, type it, read it back to yourself, retype it, reread it, think long and hard about what you've just typed and the possible backlash you'll recieve.............DELETE.........

I'm curious about the backstory and "behind the scenes" stuff.....


(Insert the smiley with the popcorn, wouldn't bloody work for me)

[shinnynoggon]

your 100% correct rob i'll make a little more sense of this by letting others know what i went through , was trying to help brendan out even to the point in taking him to nabiac/gingers creek as well as making him fit in a little better with knowledge and experience just to find out i couldn't do my own thing without brendan following me everywhere , this went on for some time to a point where he rang me to come out side and there he was parked in my driveway , that was the last straw , rang him that night and told him everything is off,leave me alone,you have a social problem,and good-bye , if you think rob is harsh then wait till you have to put up with a STALKER , one other thing brendan you need to tell the TRUTH.

[swabio-ACT]

Brendan, it would appear that you have some potentially serious issues that you need to get sorted...and perhaps you should seek some professional help in the form of counselling etc. It would not hurt for you to give a counselling line a bell to talk through your thoughts and feelings. It is certainly better that you do it now, rather than wait and end up losing more friends with your obsessive behaviour.

[fireyrob]

I think Hoffy said it best!

[MrWasabi]

People do stupid thing's in this world but they say sorry , then they forgive , and then they should let it blow over, that's what should be happening, not this crap. that keep's continuing.

Unfortunately Brendan, that's not what life is about. If you fuck up in life and piss people off, don't expect to be their friends when you say sorry. Some may forgive and forget, others will forgive and wont forget, and others will forget but wont forgive.
You burned a lot of bridges here and i don't think that they will be rebuilt with a simple "sorry".

These are lessons you learn in life.